Comments on: My vagina is not for sale http://www.sexyhealthywealthy.net/2009/04/05/my-vagina-is-not-for-sale/ Find yourself, Be yourself Fri, 30 Jul 2010 02:20:04 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.7 hourly 1 By: admin http://www.sexyhealthywealthy.net/2009/04/05/my-vagina-is-not-for-sale/comment-page-1/#comment-35 admin Fri, 17 Apr 2009 19:19:28 +0000 http://www.sexyhealthywealthy.net/?p=468#comment-35 Christie, wow....that's just....I don't know what to say...THANK YOU for sharing that. You are not alone! I just wish I could give you a hug. What does an internet hug look like? These are my arms <>. You, Christie, are the reason I am doing this. What people outside of Utah don't realize is how amazingly strong Utah women are, how ironically the Church builds women up into people who can take on anything--I don't know that many who could babysit 5 kids, let alone OWN them, hahahah. I almost think that's why it's necessary for the church to keep women down (in their place)...because if women only knew what they were capable of....and the same goes for the rest of the world. Christie, I love you!! Thank you so much for sharing your story, just know there's a gal in Philly that cares and is more than willing to listen :) Christie, wow….that’s just….I don’t know what to say…THANK YOU for sharing that. You are not alone! I just wish I could give you a hug. What does an internet hug look like? These are my arms <>. You, Christie, are the reason I am doing this. What people outside of Utah don’t realize is how amazingly strong Utah women are, how ironically the Church builds women up into people who can take on anything–I don’t know that many who could babysit 5 kids, let alone OWN them, hahahah. I almost think that’s why it’s necessary for the church to keep women down (in their place)…because if women only knew what they were capable of….and the same goes for the rest of the world.
Christie, I love you!! Thank you so much for sharing your story, just know there’s a gal in Philly that cares and is more than willing to listen :)

]]> By: admin http://www.sexyhealthywealthy.net/2009/04/05/my-vagina-is-not-for-sale/comment-page-1/#comment-34 admin Fri, 17 Apr 2009 19:03:51 +0000 http://www.sexyhealthywealthy.net/?p=468#comment-34 Okay, ummm....well, Mom, I sure love you a lot. And I'm not sure how I would feel if I was in your shoes. This is a whole lot to take in all at once. I would probably be a whole lot more "negative" than you were just now. I understand completely That is funny about the blog thing--thinking it wouldn't happen, hahaha. I am a bit of a procrastinator. But I've reached the breaking point, and now knowing what I know and seeing what I see--I LITERALLY could not stop my fingers from typing. When I go on these "rants"....it doesn't even feel like it's coming from <em>me</em>, it's hard to explain but I just want to feel REAL and I see REAL all around me, and it's not "pretty" and it's not "perfect" and people don't always smile at each other...but it's REAL. You have to understand I'm not saying that YOU taught us to be fake, or to perform--it is the culture and just the way things are. But it's killing people. There is a reason for everything, and I just feel so peaceful right now, like I'm doing what I'm supposed to be doing, and saying what I'm supposed to be saying. I don't think my body could handle it to hold this in any longer. I LOVE YOU!!!!!! I love to hear your thoughts and opinons as you process things. You are so amazing to me in so many ways, and such a great example of fighting for things you believe in!!! Okay, ummm….well, Mom, I sure love you a lot. And I’m not sure how I would feel if I was in your shoes. This is a whole lot to take in all at once. I would probably be a whole lot more “negative” than you were just now. I understand completely
That is funny about the blog thing–thinking it wouldn’t happen, hahaha. I am a bit of a procrastinator. But I’ve reached the breaking point, and now knowing what I know and seeing what I see–I LITERALLY could not stop my fingers from typing. When I go on these “rants”….it doesn’t even feel like it’s coming from me, it’s hard to explain but I just want to feel REAL and I see REAL all around me, and it’s not “pretty” and it’s not “perfect” and people don’t always smile at each other…but it’s REAL. You have to understand I’m not saying that YOU taught us to be fake, or to perform–it is the culture and just the way things are. But it’s killing people. There is a reason for everything, and I just feel so peaceful right now, like I’m doing what I’m supposed to be doing, and saying what I’m supposed to be saying. I don’t think my body could handle it to hold this in any longer.
I LOVE YOU!!!!!! I love to hear your thoughts and opinons as you process things. You are so amazing to me in so many ways, and such a great example of fighting for things you believe in!!!

]]> By: Christie http://www.sexyhealthywealthy.net/2009/04/05/my-vagina-is-not-for-sale/comment-page-1/#comment-33 Christie Fri, 17 Apr 2009 18:25:30 +0000 http://www.sexyhealthywealthy.net/?p=468#comment-33 Sounds like some of my journal entries! 5 kids, a porn addicted emotionally and physically abusive ex-husband (RM) and thousands of dollars in court fees later..... The church was not there for me or my children. Everyone in my ward turned their backs on me because we no longer "fit".....neighbor children were mean to my kids.....women were afraid I was after their husbands....Stake president told me that if I didn't "forgive" my ex and give him another chance he would never have the opportunity to make right what he had done wrong and that this would be on my head for my ex NOT making it to the celestial kingdom..... 28 years old - no degree, no job, no money. 5 kids aged 8, 6, 5, 3, 1. I'm sorry....what else was I supposed to do at this point?? Exactly. Sounds like some of my journal entries! 5 kids, a porn addicted emotionally and physically abusive ex-husband (RM) and thousands of dollars in court fees later…..

The church was not there for me or my children. Everyone in my ward turned their backs on me because we no longer “fit”…..neighbor children were mean to my kids…..women were afraid I was after their husbands….Stake president told me that if I didn’t “forgive” my ex and give him another chance he would never have the opportunity to make right what he had done wrong and that this would be on my head for my ex NOT making it to the celestial kingdom…..

28 years old - no degree, no job, no money. 5 kids aged 8, 6, 5, 3, 1.

I’m sorry….what else was I supposed to do at this point??

Exactly.

]]> By: Your Mom http://www.sexyhealthywealthy.net/2009/04/05/my-vagina-is-not-for-sale/comment-page-1/#comment-32 Your Mom Fri, 17 Apr 2009 14:22:46 +0000 http://www.sexyhealthywealthy.net/?p=468#comment-32 Haha..I told you to stop being so negative all the while being negative about it...well there's a hypocrite for you....I guess I really am a true Mormon now.... Haha..I told you to stop being so negative all the while being negative about it…well there’s a hypocrite for you….I guess I really am a true Mormon now….

]]> By: Your Mom http://www.sexyhealthywealthy.net/2009/04/05/my-vagina-is-not-for-sale/comment-page-1/#comment-31 Your Mom Fri, 17 Apr 2009 14:21:25 +0000 http://www.sexyhealthywealthy.net/?p=468#comment-31 But I still love you. I am sorry I am so negative in my comments. I guess I can clearly see this is nothing about the church, but only about all the issues inside of you that it triggers. Just like everything you say in this blog triggers me. At first it makes me mad at you and then I realize that the only reason why I am mad is because it is triggering something inside of me. And then I have to face myself and deal with whatever feeling is it bringing up. Let's just say it makes for an interesting night of lots of crying. But I think I am better off for it. So keep writing Crystal.And I will have to continue to face myself. Some days I will not be so strong though so if I ever avoid your calls or emails, just know that I am not feeling like facing it for the day. And I can't believe you finally have a website...I thought it was never going to happen....hahahah But I still love you. I am sorry I am so negative in my comments. I guess I can clearly see this is nothing about the church, but only about all the issues inside of you that it triggers. Just like everything you say in this blog triggers me. At first it makes me mad at you and then I realize that the only reason why I am mad is because it is triggering something inside of me. And then I have to face myself and deal with whatever feeling is it bringing up. Let’s just say it makes for an interesting night of lots of crying. But I think I am better off for it. So keep writing Crystal.And I will have to continue to face myself. Some days I will not be so strong though so if I ever avoid your calls or emails, just know that I am not feeling like facing it for the day. And I can’t believe you finally have a website…I thought it was never going to happen….hahahah

]]> By: Your Mom http://www.sexyhealthywealthy.net/2009/04/05/my-vagina-is-not-for-sale/comment-page-1/#comment-30 Your Mom Thu, 16 Apr 2009 23:35:45 +0000 http://www.sexyhealthywealthy.net/?p=468#comment-30 blah blah blah....my vagina is for sale and yours is not,...i thought this site was about who you ARE not what you are NOT....Focus on the negative you get more negative......and you my friend are in for alot of negative........ blah blah blah….my vagina is for sale and yours is not,…i thought this site was about who you ARE not what you are NOT….Focus on the negative you get more negative……and you my friend are in for alot of negative……..

]]> By: admin http://www.sexyhealthywealthy.net/2009/04/05/my-vagina-is-not-for-sale/comment-page-1/#comment-25 admin Wed, 15 Apr 2009 22:07:23 +0000 http://www.sexyhealthywealthy.net/?p=468#comment-25 Janet....I hear you--It is harder than people can imagine. I'm just trying to figure out why? But you explain it very well....the tentacles throughout our life that we don't even realize--and respond to life with them!....that is so well-written, thanks! Janet….I hear you–It is harder than people can imagine. I’m just trying to figure out why? But you explain it very well….the tentacles throughout our life that we don’t even realize–and respond to life with them!….that is so well-written, thanks!

]]> By: Janet http://www.sexyhealthywealthy.net/2009/04/05/my-vagina-is-not-for-sale/comment-page-1/#comment-11 Janet Tue, 07 Apr 2009 15:49:10 +0000 http://www.sexyhealthywealthy.net/?p=468#comment-11 Well done. As I read you article excerpts my neck and shoulders tensed up and the familiar dread in my stomach returned. My greatest nightmare is dreaming I'm back sucked in to the morg. Isn't is a relief to be free?! The heartbreaking thing is the morf has woven it's tentacles through our life so thoroughly we often instinctively respond to life with morg tendencies without realizing it. The journey out is life long I'm afraid. Well done. As I read you article excerpts my neck and shoulders tensed up and the familiar dread in my stomach returned. My greatest nightmare is dreaming I’m back sucked in to the morg. Isn’t is a relief to be free?! The heartbreaking thing is the morf has woven it’s tentacles through our life so thoroughly we often instinctively respond to life with morg tendencies without realizing it. The journey out is life long I’m afraid.

]]> By: Anonymous http://www.sexyhealthywealthy.net/2009/04/05/my-vagina-is-not-for-sale/comment-page-1/#comment-10 Anonymous Sun, 05 Apr 2009 22:01:15 +0000 http://www.sexyhealthywealthy.net/?p=468#comment-10 <strong>Mom Blogs - Blogs for Moms...</strong> ... Mom Blogs - Blogs for Moms…

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]]> By: Eric Hundin http://www.sexyhealthywealthy.net/2009/04/05/my-vagina-is-not-for-sale/comment-page-1/#comment-9 Eric Hundin Sun, 05 Apr 2009 19:15:50 +0000 http://www.sexyhealthywealthy.net/?p=468#comment-9 I found your blog on MSN Search. Nice writing. I will check back to read more. Eric Hundin I found your blog on MSN Search. Nice writing. I will check back to read more.

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